There is no perfect man; this to all mi ladies

 Searching for mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches. it is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists; wondered why you seek perfection from someone else when you are not perfect yourself? why you place such an insurmountable obstacle in front of you? why you have made your life and relationships difficult because of such irrational demand? All of this can happen unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is very impossicant, you have got to choose a humanbeing like the rest of us. Girls anyone you see enjoying a great relationship worked on such relationship. There are no shortcuts..... Perfectionalism may work well also work well in a novel, movie or Tv shows, but in real life it will frustrate you and lead you to massive pain. Aree u thinking of  Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place. You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Some of us ladies also considering fact tat cos ur man ain't got too much money; then for dat reason you thinking of throwing a relationship where u r been treated like a queen away? Gurl u had better think twice..
Some of us say cos a guy is too short, tall, huge, light n dark skinned and u are making dat a barrier to been happy with a man? then i think there is a big problem such person bcos its not an issue @ all.
Truth is; every woman u see happy in a relationship has done lots of work to make dat relationship sucessful n work with Patience, love, understanding , Απϑ above all she must ve valued what she had......Wε ladies should learn to value n appreciate what we got; it also pays to respect, value, then take the men in our lives just the way they are cos nobody is perfect....